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    doer or thinker - which one are you?

                                                                                                                     Often when I meet people from my everyday life I come a cross two types of personality: the doers and the thinkers.  I find that the doers just get on with things such as putting their ideas into practice and often only tell you when they are done.  Whereas the thinkers are always going to do something. 

Sometimes they talk about quite major plans such as starting a business or starting on a lucrative business venture and they talk about it with great gusto at the time.  But the plans never materialize.  Why does this happen?  Why does the doer just do it and the thinker just think about it?  The answer is that they both use different portions of their brains to run their lives.

                                           Let me elaborate! 

The doer is a subconscious mind thinker who trusts their inner wisdom as a guide where as the thinker is a conscious mind thinker who goes with the analysis of the conscious mind instead.  The doer trusts his or her wisdom and understands that analysis upon analysis will only confuse the issue so it is bypassed.  This doesn’t mean that the doer just does things without thinking it just means he/she does not over think the issue with conscious mind chatter but rather trusts their inner “knowing” to guide them to the best course of action. 

The thinker on the other hand thinks of an idea and gets excited at first making major plans for it but the more they think about it (while gathering ridiculous amounts of information) the doubts creep in.  The more they doubt the more they think and the more information they need until the mind is so full that the idea then seems impossible. Every worst case scenario rears its ugly head!

I know people who are always on crest of the next big thing happening and it rarely comes to anything.   Then they suddenly disappear not to be seen for another six months until they buy another personal development tape series or something and start the bandwagon again. 

The problem with the thinker is that the conscious mind in which they are analysing with is not designed for wise thinking but only quick thinking. Therefore the conscious mind can go too deep into analysis and needing too much information, which then confuses them. 

I have a friend who is like this.  This person has a vast archive of personal development material, more than I have ever seen.  He must have every tape set of every self-help guru from the last 80 years!  Yet he still buys more, every week he will order a new book or tape set convincing himself that they hold the answers and that every bit of information is taking him towards the pot of gold.

The problem with this philosophy is that there gets a point where there is always another tape set to buy so putting things off yet again.  How much information do you need?  Sometimes you just have to go for it and say what the hell!  If something doesn’t work out as long as you tried you best and you did what you thought was the right thing to do so what.  Too much information can cause self-doubt.  Be a doer and not a thinker!

To read about banishing self-doubt read the Foreword & Introduction of The Principles of Life on this site. So then which are you a doer or a thinker?

 

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