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The difference between highly successful people and those who only aspire to the average in a nutshell. 

Through studying people throughout my adult life I have come to some startling findings with regards to the different mindsets of the two types of people that we find. The super successful and those who are averagely successful. Less than 5% of the world's population actually go beyond that of the average person and into the realms of the super successful.

Most people the other 95% are slightly above the average, become the average or are below the average in success terms. So what separates these two personality types? The biggest difference I have found is that the super successful people of the world are predominantly subconscious inner wisdom thinkers while the average person is predominantly a conscious mind thinker. What does that mean? Read on!

The conscious mind thinker rarely aspires to anything great because the conscious mind is always looking to find fault and criticise any thought, which it believes is too ambitious. Whenever an ambitious thought or idea is brought to mind (from the subconscious) it is immediately analysed and criticised until a fault is found by the conscious mind. Soon whatever it is, is mentally pulled apart until the thought or idea no longer seems sensible. This process of over analysis is employed whenever a new thought or idea may take them from the comfort zone.

The conscious mind thinker takes these negative conscious mind doubts very seriously indeed and nine times out of ten back heels the idea. The conscious mind thinker uses this frustrating process all of their lives and this is what keeps them from ever really taking the chances, which might have actually yielded a better outcome. The conscious mind is always ready to dream up some negative scenarios to throw a spanner in the works to any new plan or idea.

 The more those doubts are accepted whether they are personal doubts or perceptional doubts the more they become conditioned ways of thinking. For example if a conscious mind thinker thinks about starting a new college course and gets excited at the prospect of starting it the conscious mind will usually try to sabotage the idea with negative input and scenarios to put them off. The doubts creep in.

Somebody who is heavily influenced by their conscious mind thoughts may abandon the idea now they are "thinking about it realistically". For the conscious mind thinker there is always reason to doubt, always reasons to be wary and there is always a "but what if" to watch out for. This sorry state of affairs is the reason that so many talented, able people never reach their true potential and instead live average lives. Why, because they believed the negative chatter of the conscious mind instead.

On the other hand the subconscious inner mind thinker has learned either automatically or through experience that the negative chatter of the conscious mind is not important and therefore is not to be taken too seriously. Instead of running with and analysing those negative thoughts they immediately dismiss them into the waste paper bin of their mind and forget about them. Through experience the person has found this the best way to live or maybe they have done this automatically. This thinker understands the power of thoughts and rather than using them to destroy their potential they us them wisely to propel themselves into success.

They understand that there is no practical benefit in thinking ridiculous thoughts so they don't do it. The subconscious inner mind thinker is a cool customer and remains so when others are getting stressed. They are able to calmly think through the best options to solve problems and are able to make good judgments because of that.

 Self-belief is not something that such a person has to keep reinforcing in them selves as without the chatter of the conscious mind their thinking is clear and knowing anyway. There is no self-bolstering needed for the inner subconscious thinker as they are wisdom thought driven. Faultfinding and self-criticism is not wise also so it does not play any part of the daily routine for this person.

Without the constant annoying chatter of the conscious mind to bother them the subconscious inner wisdom thinker is very goal orientated and looks forward to taking on new ventures. Whether that be a new career direction, a new hobby or anything which excites and gets the juices going they never question whether they can do it or not. Failure to succeed never comes into the equation as the person has total faith in their inner wisdom to guide them. When things happen in life which some people may call negative the inner mind subconscious mind thinker looks at solving the problem rather than focusing on the problem itself.

Thinking that every challenge that life throws at us is a lesson from which we can understand and grow wiser from is another characteristic of such a thinker. This thinker typically makes good decisions and can appear to be "lucky" by some people who have the majority mindset. They do not take seriously the negative doom and gloom of the conscious mind so they remain unaffected by it.

So there you have it I know this is going to be a difficult decision but which mind are you going to use for your life? OK let me show you how to begin to take this knowledge and start to change the way you think and live forever!

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